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Lyudmila's responses

• How would you describe yourself?:

I’m very energetic and crave intense experiences, I'm attracted to aspects of life that are strange, unfathomable (or taboo). I’m rarely content with myself and my life, I’ve got an inner urge to be continually going farther or deeper than I ever have before. Having said that, although I can appear freewheeling, independent and, at times, inconsistent, at heart I’m very loyal and constant. I love wholeheartedly and generously. I will stand by the loved ones to the end - as long as they never betray my trust though. Relationship to me is a 100%-100% thing. I put everything I have into it - providing him with love and compassion is a number one goal. In return I would expect the same. I know without a doubt that fights happen, words are said. But when it is all said and done, that level of commitment and love can keep us together through anything. I may hide my interests or inclinations, except from those who know me very intimately. I wear my heart on my sleeve for them. In fact, I’m a very outspoken person - the kind of girl whose honesty gets her in trouble - I would rather tell someone the truth and be hated than lie and be loved. I'm a person who always wants to feel special and valued, and I want to be shown that my company and affection, time and effort are wanted and appreciated. I'm not looking for sex, or a hook-up, or anything like that. I want a real relationship... something I can hold onto for more than a few days.

• How often and who do you ask advice?:

Not that often. Those people I ask for advice are the ones whom I trust - my mum and my best friends.

• What quality do you value most in the people of your sex?:

Reasonableness and high intuition.

• What quality do you value most in the people of the opposite sex?:

Intelligence, open-mindedness, original thinking, chivalry, tactfulness, forgiveness.

• The main advice that you will give to your children?:

First, "Seize the day, put no trust in tomorrow". Second, "It’s always too soon to quit". Third, "One who makes no mistakes makes nothing". Fourth, "Laugh at yourself first, before anyone else can". Fifth, "Speak when you’re angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret". That's it.

• What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?:

It's too personal to talk about here.

• The last books that you read?:

A Stranger by Albert Camus, The Collector by John Fowles, Books of Blood by Clive Barker, etc.

• What are your goals now?:

I'll tell you later on.

• Do you have a lot of friends?:

It depends on how many 'a lot of' is. There are about 5 people I can always count on and who can always count on me - they're my friends.

• What qualities do you dislike most in the people of your sex?:

Fickleness.

• What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?:

Small-mindedness, ignorance, lack of self-confidence, rudeness.

• What would you like to change in yourself?:

Not much - impatience first of all...

• My faults:

Too trusting at times, always impatient.

• My merits:

Sincerity, kind-heartedness, decisiveness.

• How do my friends see me?:

As an extravert personality, a good listener, trustworthy, genuine - at least these are the traits all my friends could agree on, after being enquired by me :-)

• How do my acquaintances see me?:

I've never cared much about it, so the answer is - I don't know.

• МMy favorite writers and poets:

Edgar Allan Poe, J.D. Salinger, Fyodor Dostoevsky, Mikhail Bulgakov, etc.

• my favorite music:

It's easier to name genres I don't like - country, jazz and classical music. The stuff I listen to largely depends on my mood.

• My favorite food:

Italian and Finnish cuisine.

• My favorite films:

Sleepy Hollow, Secret Window, From Hell, Dead Man, Blow, The Ninth Gate and a couple of Russian films I doubt you guys have ever heard of.

• My favorite fairy-tales:

Alice in Wonderland is definitely the best.

• my favorite pass time:

Reading and listening to music, painting/drawing, socialising. Oh, and cooking of course - I love cooking.

• The job I dream about:

Primary education teacher.

• The partner I dream about:

Family-oriented, intelligent, loyal, affectionate.

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